Encourage

 

Brett McKay presents a list of 10 things regarding giving compliments. It’s worth looking at, considering, and putting into practice.

He sets up the list by telling of a sincere compliment he received from a coach many years ago. McKay was not the most talented guy on the team, but the coach recognized his strong work ethic and spoke to him specifically about it.

That compliment turned into life-changing, not-forgotten encouragement that impacted the way he perceived himself. Still does.

I wonder how many lives we can change with a few sincere compliments that move into encouragement?

Here’s the list:

1. Start paying attention.

2. Compliment the small stuff.

3. Be specific.

4. Be sincere.

5. Avoid the backhanded compliment.

6. Explain how the person’s great qualities affect you.

7. Vocalize your thoughts.

8. Compliment someone in front of others.

9. Relay "second-hand compliments."

10. Don’t delay.